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Free Couples Budget Calculator

Combine incomes, plan shared expenses, and keep individual fun money. Find a fair split that works for both of you.

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Partner 1

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No-questions-asked spending

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Partner 2

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$

No-questions-asked spending

How do you want to split expenses?

Partner 1 earns 53% of combined income, Partner 2 earns 47%

Shared Expenses

Rent/Mortgage
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Utilities
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Groceries
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Internet/Phone
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Streaming Services
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$

Emergency fund, vacation, etc.

Monthly Summary

Partner 1

Income$4,000
Share of expenses (53%)-$1,600
Fun money-$200
Savings share-$267
Remaining$1,933

Partner 2

Income$3,500
Share of expenses (47%)-$1,400
Fun money-$200
Savings share-$233
Remaining$1,667

Budgeting as a Couple

The key to success: Have regular money dates! Schedule a monthly check-in to review spending and adjust your budget together.

Finding a Fair Split

There's no one-size-fits-all approach. What matters is that both partners feel the arrangement is fair. Here are the common approaches:

  • 50/50: Simple and equal. Works best when incomes are similar or when both partners prefer total equality.
  • Proportional: Each partner contributes based on their income. The higher earner pays more, but both have similar "leftover" ratios.
  • Custom: Some couples have one person pay all fixed expenses while the other handles variable costs. Find what works for you!

Not sure which split is fair for you? Our guide on how to split bills with a partner runs 50/50, proportional and equal-leftover splits on the same numbers, and covers the irregular bills most splits miss.

Fun money is important! Having individual "no-questions-asked" spending money prevents resentment and maintains financial autonomy.

Joint vs Separate Accounts

Many couples use a "yours, mine, and ours" approach:

  • Joint account: For shared expenses (rent, groceries, utilities)
  • Individual accounts: For personal spending and fun money
  • Shared savings: For joint goals (emergency fund, vacations)

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